#men are scary

[menrstinkyy]

I'd be stressing out over what my face looks like or what my body looks like from certain angles EEK!

[thenumberonelistener]

the only men i trust are aizawa shota and his husband

[princessefemmelesbian]

I hear a lot of people say that "if sexuality was a choice then there would be no straight girls at all" and that's true and shit but let's be honest if sexuality was a choice then there wouldn't be any straight guys either.

Straight men don't actually like, love, or care about women, they just see us as convenient fuck holes to cum into, control, own as property, or show off as a trophy or plaything. Some of them are even actively repulsed by women and don't even find them attractive in the slightest, they resent the women they had sex with because she's now been "soiled" and made worthless and impure, they abuse and rape women with impunity, they are disgusted by cis women's periods and make fun of them/isolate them for it, they see trans women as a fetish or a fuckdoll to abuse and manipulate and sometimes will kill them even after having sex with them because they think it makes them gay, they regularly mock women who don't fit their photoshopped airbrushed pornified pinup doll fantasy of what the female body should look like: curves in the "wrong" places, body hair, love handles, stomachs that aren't perfectly flat, cellulite, pimples, etc., they find it all repulsive and want women to be perfectly slim, soft, and smooth-shaven, even though that's not possible in reality, and joke about us getting replaced by AI models and fembots.

And then when they realize that women have had enough of their shit and are no longer sexually available to them, they go on killing sprees and blame women for making them "lonely" and feeling "undesirable". The only reason straight men even choose to entertain relationships with women is if they can get something out of it. To them we are a means for control, reproduction, sexual release, and exercising their own masculinity. If they got none of that from women then they wouldn't even bother with us...and that's if they don't decide to kill us first.

[cats-healing-diary]

Men are so scary

[uglygirlpretendingtobepretty]

[ashthecaprisun]

‘Would you rather be alone in a room with a bear or-‘

A BEAR!

THEYRE SO SILLY

[andvys]

one thing about me, i have never kissed a guy in my entire life. i’m a proud girl kisser

(eddie please come and give me a kiss i’m dying)

[badgerinamicrowaveromohomo]

This post will be be different from my entire page. It is an information point mainly discussing girls:

As a once perceived female, I have anger. Today I walked down the streets of my beloved town and I remembered the first time I went down it on my own. I was terrified and walking quickly because I heard horror stories and I felt sad about being separated from my family (I got a little bit lost). The FIRST pub I quickly walked past I was a scared object. I don't remember what they said, but it was something about being on my own and a pretty girl and just general catcalling. I was that sort of age where I didn't have any dislikes in food or in people. That must've been the first thing I disliked. I was so scared and it took me a long time to go out by myself.

This wasn't the first time I was sexualised, nor the last. It hurts me the disparage between men and woman, or more apt between men and girls.

May I iterate at this time that there is so much good in this world. Mostly reiterating to me so I don't throw something.

Dance took up a lot of my life when young. At the age of maybe 6 I learned to "sexy dance". Couldn't have been more than 4 when I started this sport and I remember so clearly being told to suck everything in. Ballet does rely on core strength, and I thought there was something wrong with me for having a bum or having a tiny tiny stomach that stuck out in revealing leotards. I was teased by the teacher for having breakfast.

It's one of my earliest memories.

I thought for years this was the fault of the leotar, that girls shouldnt wear such things. Turns out it's the people, the teachers, our unwanted observers.

Today, my boss walked behind me centimetres past me and I froze. His towel brushed my arse a little bit that could have easily been a genuine accident. What wasn't an accident was how close he was to me than his male co-workers. All shift he treated me like an idiot for asking questions about the workplace that I'm new to. I know for a fact that if it was a man asking the same questions that he would be inquisitive and wanting to learn, but I perceived his responses to mean that I am shrill and annoying.

We are taught from a very young age that men are dangerous and it proves to be right. We are taught to fear them all. Never during lessons was I surprised to hear the horrors of the world because it's ingrained from birth.

Half of our population is scared of the other.

Half of our population feel scared when a man is behind you.

Half of our population can't deal with this fear anymore.

We have been crying out for centuries to be taken seriously.

Since women being able to vote, there has been a shift of "women have all the rights already, why do we have to change because of one bad thing that happened?"

We need to change because grown women are afraid to be alone.

We need to change because children get cat called.

Legally, we are equal.

To you, we are equal because we can do the same jobs as you.

We see the ways you treat us differently but we are AFRAID to speak up.

We can't lose our jobs over this. Many do. I was replaced by a boy in my first workplace because he would be stronger than weak little girl. I lost my next job because I spoke out about feeling not safe.

I feel afraid when there's only men in the room. I feel that I can't say anything and I'm helpless. I feel that I'm the idiot, no matter what. One man can make a room full of girls/ women feel threatened.

A 16 year old today was told off because her legs were on display and it wasn't professional. I've seen men bartenders wear shorts all of the time.

There are different standards for you and for i, all because you presume me female.

We don't want to anger you in case you strike out and hurt us.

Because we've all been hurt by people like you.

I implore for the women/ former women to find a single woman who hasn't been scared of a man just waking down the street, just being looked at for too long.

Reply if you have never been scared of men.

Reblog if you have never not been scared of men.

A poem to end this speech.

Men.

I don't care who you are

I'm scared of you.

[soapywankenopy]

this week on "why men are scary" i was riding the 3 train back to my missed stop (long story but tldr: some guy was getting high on the train, cops got called, it was a little bit scary but no big deal, i just got distracted and missed my stop by a long shot) so i get off at one station and then get back on going the opposite way. as i'm walking onto the train this guy with a bike is standing in the doorway (why i didn't just go to another doorway, i don't know, i was very tired at this point) he moves his bike enough for me and the person behind me to walk onto the train. i sit down and mind my own business and work on something on my phone when this guy waves his hand into my vision to get my attention (mind you, i had headphones on), and I think "ok maybe i dropped something or he has to tell me something" but he just awkwardly introduces himself and tells me he just moved back home from living in japan/overseas so he has to get used to the social customs here and at this point, he seems nice, but i want to get back to what i was working on and I feel uncomfortable with the situation. but i am so bad at shutting people down in situations like that so i just sit and converse with him. he's complimenting my style and my hair and keeps saying that he wants to hang out and be friends. i tell him that i'm leaving tomorrow (got home yesterday) and that i can't hang out. eventually he asks for a way to stay in contact, and i had been dreading this the whole time, because a) i am uncomfortable already and do not want to be friends with this guy, b) we are in a public area and i feel the pressure to be nice to him because there are people around, c) i don't know if this guy is actually going to hurt me if i turn him down. i try to talk him into just following my cat's instagram which is a public page and i feel more comfortable with strangers following that account. but he says "oh, how do i know you aren't just after the clout? like everyone else?" and i fake laugh and say "oh i'm super lame i don't care about that, i only have a few followers" and he says "i'll follow your cat if you give me your phone number" and i really didn't know what else i could do. i'm trapped on a train car with this guy who is making this big show of playing the good guy, asking about my interests, giving me compliments. so i gave him my phone number (not happily). naturally, a few hours later he sends me a message on my cat's instagram and i give a short response. then he sends me a shirtless selfie of himself holding his cat. and this is it, i finally think "ok i really really don't like this situation" so i block him on everything. then, last night after i got home i start getting messages on Whatsapp and from another number cursing me out, calling me names. so one day with this guy i'm "really genuine" and "not like everyone here" and the next i'm a "fake ass b!tch" and a "fat whore" hmm. and now he's threatening to dox me. so i've blocked him on Whatsapp and the other number he texted me from. i disabled my cat's instagram account so people can't find it. i keep getting phone calls from a "private number" which i'm sure is him. does anyone have any other suggestions on how to keep myself safe? i'm not in the same city as him anymore (even if i was, idk if he'd even find me among 8 million people). it's scary out here guys, be safe and be smart.

[happy-and-alone]

rereading my dark vanessa so i can write a comparative essay on that and lolita and let me just say this shit is killing me bro😭

especially as a victim who's been thru this exact situation, this shit is hurting my soul. i've read both books twice now and it's still a stab in the heart each time

[spoiledsummerdasies]

Me: men are scary

The system: *is mostly masc aligned*

Me: … except you losers, as if you could ever hurt me I’m the princess of this system and you know it

[princessefemmelesbian]

Earlier when I first joined Tumblr I spoke about the horrific misogynoir on the r/unpopular opinion subreddit. Now get ready for part 2: the lesbophobia.

Just searching “lesbians” in the search bar on that dumb subreddit gets you results like this:

I checked out one of the few positive lesbian posts, which was even written by a lesbian, who is also a trans woman to boot! 🤗

And lo and behold, the RESPONSES. To be fair, some of them were positive:

But that’s it. The rest?

Cishet men are basically begging me to hate them. And so I will. I’m going to start killing these men. Who wants to join me?

[got7]

men legitimately piss me off and scare me so much, i genuinely don’t think i can ever have full trust in a man for as long as i live

[logicalnonsense-smiley]

Ive got assaulted for the first time in my life today so ive made some comics

Me: Ive got assaulted today by an old man

Roomate: Lol did you have sex

Me: Lol yeah. (I hate you)

Me: *talks about being assaulted*

My mom: *says what I should do next time*

Me: Oh right only lucky woman get assaulted only once in their life

Me: There are a few things that define how it is to be a girl

Me: check a box that reads 'being assaulted '

Me: And today i become a real one

Anyway i wont be able to stop thinking about that for a while

[blisscoretrash]

if men weren't so terrifying and uncomfortable to be around and unsafe in nature, i'd definitely consider being a cute gf who makes her boyfriend pastries and paintings every so often just because i love him. but that's going to have to be reserved for my future girlfriend. she probably (definitely) deserves it more.

[rakkikuroba]

So the other day i was a video on the endings in Silent Hill 2 because I wasn’t going to do the other ones lol and the next video title was "Silent Hill 3 : a tale of womanhood" or smtg. Didn’t watch didn’t wanna get spoiled.

And that’s so funny because the first thing that happened to Heather is that she’s getting stalked by a creepy older man who refuses no as an answer to the point where she had to hid in the bathrooms. AND IF THAT ISN’T WOMANHOOD IDK WHAT IS!

I haven’t played more because i had a violent meltdown (as autistics do lol) and im unable to play anything else than House Flipper because im tired